Asked on r/TryingForABaby: "I'm 29 and removed my copper IUD in May to start trying. The cramps are gone, which is amazing, but my periods are now much lighter than they used to be and I'm worried."
First, take the win here, because it is a real one: the pain difference you are describing is exactly what coming off a copper IUD looks like. They are famous for the cramping you lived with, and going from preloading ibuprofen every month to one or two doses matters, for your liver and for your life.
Now the flow, because I read it a little differently than most of the reassurance you will get. I spent 25 years as a reproductive acupuncturist reading cycles, and here is the thing about the copper IUD: it was not just causing your pain, it was inflating your flow. Copper IUDs reliably make periods heavier. Which means the bleeding you saw all those years was never actually yours, and before that you were on the pill skipping bleeds entirely. So this may genuinely be the first honest look at your natural flow you have had since you were a teenager.
That is exactly why I would pay attention to it rather than wave it off. If what your body is showing you, now that nothing is masking it, is a consistently very light period, that is a signal worth reading: it can mean something is limiting your ability to build abundant blood and a well-nourished lining each cycle. Not a panic signal. A place to look.
Where I look first, in order: diet, because undereating overall, and under-eating iron, B12, and protein specifically, is the most common and most fixable version of this. Exercise load, because a big enough energy deficit quietly thins cycles even in women who look perfectly healthy. And gut health, because you can eat beautifully and still absorb poorly.
So my honest advice: enjoy the pain-free periods, watch your next two or three cycles without judgment, and note the flow each day honestly. If it stays on the very light side, do not wait on it, start with the food and training questions above, and it is also fair to ask your doctor to check things like ferritin along the way.
And the timing is actually on your side. You found this signal at the very start of trying, which is exactly when it is most useful.
Kirsten Karchmer has spent 25 years as a reproductive acupuncturist and fertility clinician, reading the cycles of more than ten thousand women. Ask her your own question live: she holds open office hours in the Conceivable app every day at noon Central.
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